Author: Rick Schupp

Read: Luke 23:46

⁴⁴ It was now about the sixth hour, and there was darkness over the whole land until the ninth hour, ⁴⁵ while the sun’s light failed. And the curtain of the temple was torn in two. ⁴⁶ Then Jesus, calling out with a loud voice, said, “Father, into your hands I commit my spirit!” And having said this he breathed his last. ⁴⁷ Now when the centurion saw what had taken place, he praised God, saying, “Certainly this man was innocent!” ⁴⁸ And all the crowds that had assembled for this spectacle, when they saw what had taken place, returned home beating their breasts. ⁴⁹ And all his acquaintances and the women who had followed him from Galilee stood at a distance watching these things.

As we come to Jesus’ final words from the cross, the sun’s light has failed and the curtain in the temple has been torn in two from top to bottom. The inner curtain that separated the Holy of Holies from the Holy Place. It was a curtain that kept all but the High Priest from entering the holiest place where God manifested his presence. The curtain’s tearing means the way had been opened between humans and God. Now, God’s presence will not only be in his temple, but will rest upon all who are filled with his Holy Spirit.

As this happens, Jesus cries out. Normally a person nearing death on a cross would have hardly enough breath, let alone strength, to cry out in a loud voice. But Jesus does. His declaration is a word of surrender. Throughout his life, Jesus has submitted to the will of God. He has obeyed it. Now, he commits his spirit to his heavenly Father. He has accomplished what God had called him to do on the cross. Now his work is done.

After all the pain and suffering; after being forsaken and enduring the punishment for our sin; Jesus knows there is life and peace with the Father. There is hope and joy with the Father. He can commit his entire self; he can surrender his spirit. In the Father, he is in good hands.

As Jesus commits his spirit to his Father, he speaks a word of trust. He entrusts himself to the one who can care and protect him. He entrusts himself to his Father’s care. He knows there is no better place for him.

Jesus’ words are a word of intimacy. His time of desolation is coming to an end. His pain will pass. His mission has been accomplished. His life is not being taken from him, it is being offered. He offers himself for the sake of the world. For you and for me. He knows the Father’s presence. He knows the Father’s pleasure. He knows the joy that awaits him, the joy set before him.

Why are the words of Jesus, “Father, into your hands I commit my spirit” so comforting to so many?

In the midst of pain and suffering are you able to see the goodness of your Father?

Are you able to trust that all He is permitting will produce fruit in your life?

Are you able to “lean into” your Father who will not leave you and will never forget you?

Read: John 19:30

²⁸ After this, Jesus, knowing that all was now finished, said (to fulfill the Scripture), “I thirst.” ²⁹ A jar full of sour wine stood there, so they put a sponge full of the sour wine on a hyssop branch and held it to his mouth. ³⁰ When Jesus had received the sour wine, he said, “It is finished,” and he bowed his head and gave up his spirit.

³¹ Since it was the day of Preparation, and so that the bodies would not remain on the cross on the Sabbath (for that Sabbath was a high day), the Jews asked Pilate that their legs might be broken and that they might be taken away. ³² So the soldiers came and broke the legs of the first, and of the other who had been crucified with him. ³³ But when they came to Jesus and saw that he was already dead, they did not break his legs. ³⁴ But one of the soldiers pierced his side with a spear, and at once there came out blood and water. ³⁵ He who saw it has borne witness—his testimony is true, and he knows that he is telling the truth—that you also may believe. ³⁶ For these things took place that the Scripture might be fulfilled: “Not one of his bones will be broken.” ³⁷ And again another Scripture says, “They will look on him whom they have pierced.”

Many of us have heard people say, “There’s no such thing as a free lunch.” Cynically, when we see an offer that seems to good to be true, it usually is. Those hugely discounted Disney tickets? Just survive through a three-hour high-pressure sales pitch for a time-share! That free booklet on how to make a million dollars a week flipping houses? Yes, it’s free but only tells you to buy the program for $525! Get that procedure done for $39.99! Sure, but did we mention the taxes and fees that come along with it? That will be $139.99! What a deal!

The Gospel is one time the message is too good, but it’s also completely true! There is nothing hidden. No extra costs down the road. Confess you are completely unable to save yourself; admit your sinfulness and your need for Jesus; give him your life and put your trust in him, and you will be saved. Give up your life for Jesus and he will give you back a life that is eternal, filled with purpose and the Holy Spirit!

In today’s passage, Jesus has said he is thirsty. After he is given sour wine to drink, Jesus declares, “It is finished,” the sixth word from the cross. Jesus had obeyed the will of the Father perfectly. He had finished every task God had given him to do. From the moment of his birth until this moment on the cross, Jesus had obeyed the Father’s will perfectly. He had brought glory to God by accomplishing the work the Father had given him to do (John 17:4). It is finished.

There is a difference between completing a task and accomplishing it. When we complete something, we finish it. We’ve done all that is required. Perhaps we completed it correctly, but perhaps not. The point is all the boxes have been checked and there is nothing left to do. Accomplishment has the sense of finishing successfully. The task has been completed, but more than that, its purpose was accomplished.

Jesus’ purpose in the incarnation was to do the will of the Father. He was to live a sinless life despite experiencing all the temptations we go through (Hebrews 4:15). He kept the Law perfectly. And though he had done no wrong, he went to the cross in our place, taking our sin upon himself (2 Corinthians 5:21). Isaiah 53:5 looked forward to the Messiah dying in our place, “But he was pierced for our transgressions; he was crushed for our iniquities; upon him was the chastisement that brought us peace, and with his wounds we are healed.”

Jesus paid it all. The debt we owed because of our sin, Jesus took upon himself. Paul wrote in Romans 3:23-24, “All have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and are justified by his grace as a gift, through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus.” And in Romans 6:23 he wrote, “The wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.”

Many people live feeling that they need to either earn their salvation or they need to somehow pay God back for what he has done. Their lives are spent trying to justify the price Jesus paid on their behalf. They hope they’ve done enough. They hope God will see all their efforts and bless them.

We can never, ever do enough for God. We have to confess our sin. We have to accept Christ’s death as our payment. We need to trust in him completely and obey what he says – not to earn anything, but because faith moves into action. Our obedience does not save us. Our obedience does not gain us points with God we can cash in for answered prayer. Our obedience is simply the evidence that we really believe what we claim to believe. If we trust in Christ, we will do what he says.

As we saw in Matthew 7, many will come to Jesus on that day and say, “Lord, Lord! Look at my accomplishments!” but they did not do God’s will to surrender their lives to Jesus and he will say, “I never knew you.” Others will come to Jesus on that day and say, “Lord, Lord! Have mercy on me a sinner.” Those who humbled themselves and surrendered to Jesus will hear him say, “Well done my good and faithful servant, enter your rest.”

Where do you find it hard to surrender to Jesus? Have you trusted completely in his finished work on the cross or do you still feel compelled to do something to earn it?

When you face difficult times in your life, what does it do to your faith? It is natural to have doubts and questions, but do you find yourself fearful, ready to give up, sure that God is out to get you? Your reaction may help you to see if there are areas you still need to surrender to Jesus.

It is finished. Jesus has accomplished all that must be done so we might be restored to the relationship God always intended for us. Let us surrender and trust him completely every day!

Read: John 19:28

²⁸ After this, Jesus, knowing that all was now finished, said (to fulfill the Scripture), “I thirst.” ²⁹ A jar full of sour wine stood there, so they put a sponge full of the sour wine on a hyssop branch and held it to his mouth. ³⁰ When Jesus had received the sour wine, he said, “It is finished,” and he bowed his head and gave up his spirit.

Jesus has been beaten and mocked. He’s been marched from Gethsemane to the High Priest and from the High Priest to Pilate. He has been spat upon and condemned. He has been forced to carry his cross, the weight of which caused him to stumble and fall. Simon of Cyrene had to be pressed into service to help him.

Jesus is in shock. Blood loss was not the usual cause of death in a crucifixion, suffocation was. The weight of the body pulled down on the diaphragm making it hard to breathe. Jesus would have to try to push up with his legs and pull up with his wrists to open things up. Over time, his leg muscles would cramp.

In the midst of all this, Jesus has been up all night. He has not had anything to eat or drink since he celebrated Passover with the disciples. Until the darkness settled on the land for three hours, we can expect the sun was beating down on him.

It his context, Jesus knew the end had come. He knew he had accomplished all God had sent him to do. He says, “I thirst.” This is the fifth statement Jesus made from the cross. It is unclear what Old Testament passage this points to.

Some have suggested Psalm 22:15, “my strength is dried up like a potsherd, and my tongue sticks to my jaws; you lay me in the dust of death.” This has some weight because several verses in Psalm 22 are quoted in connection with the crucifixion. Others see Psalm 42:2 or Psalm 63:1, “My soul thirsts for God.” This would mean that Jesus’ words are symbolic – a thirst for God, not literal thirst – which seems less likely.

Most likely, Jesus is alluding to Psalm 69:21, “They gave me poison for food, and for my thirst they gave me sour wine to drink.” John has already quoted this psalm in reference to Jesus in two other places (John 2:17 and 15:25), and after Jesus says he is thirsty, someone runs and gets a sponge full of sour wine and offers it to him to drink.

Professor C.F.D. Moule suggested the connection to Psalm 69:21 is even tighter. He suggested that if Jesus knew he was fulfilling Scripture, he knew that if he confessed his thirst, someone would bring him sour wine to drink. Scripture would be fulfilled.

The point of all this, is that John wants us to understand that nothing that happens in the passion of Jesus is random or coincidental. Every single event, even the smallest thing like Jesus saying, “I thirst,” was a part of God’s plan for redemption and a result of Jesus’ direct obedience to it. He knew all things would be fulfilled and he had a key role in that process. It is his obedience which brings them all to pass.

When you see how specifically and minutely God planned for Christ’s death that we might receive life, what is stirred in your heart?

What does his willingness to go to such lengths to not only have Old Testament writers record specific verses, but then to have them be fulfilled in the New Testament in the life and death of Jesus?

Though we can imagine the pain and the suffering Jesus endured, we can’t truly understand the depth of all he went through. The physical and emotional pain; the weight of our sin laid on him; it’s a burden no mind can conceive.

When you consider Jesus’ willingness to obey to the point of death – even death on a cross (Philippians 2:8); that he who knew no sin became sin for us that we might become the righteousness of God (2 Corinthians 5:21), how do you respond? What does such love do to your heart?

Take time to meditate on God’s love and tell him what it means to you!

Read: Matthew 27:46

⁴⁵ Now from the sixth hour there was darkness over all the land until the ninth hour. ⁴⁶ And about the ninth hour Jesus cried out with a loud voice, saying, “Eli, Eli, lema sabachthani?” that is, “My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?” ⁴⁷ And some of the bystanders, hearing it, said, “This man is calling Elijah.” 

⁴⁸ And one of them at once ran and took a sponge, filled it with sour wine, and put it on a reed and gave it to him to drink. ⁴⁹ But the others said, “Wait, let us see whether Elijah will come to save him.” ⁵⁰ And Jesus cried out again with a loud voice and yielded up his spirit.

In the process of being made more like Jesus, the Christian life can sometimes feel more like death than life. The old self and the old ways are dying in order for the new ways, the new life in Christ to emerge. A young church leader facing this season in her life asked, “Does everyone have to go through this painful place in the spiritual life?” Her mentor stopped and thought for a moment before answering, “Well, even Jesus had to die in order for the will of God to come forth in his life.”

The fourth word Jesus spoke on the cross speaks of the suffering and pain Jesus endured as he bore our sin on the cross. After Jesus was nailed to the cross, darkness came over the land from noon until three o’clock. It was a sign of judgment and tragedy; a sign that the light of the world’s life was being snuffed out. It was a sign to the Jewish people that their actions, their sin, had propelled them into spiritual darkness.

Not only is the judgment on the land and on its people, it’s a judgment on Jesus. It’s not a judgment that results from any sin or wrong in his life – he was a perfect, sinless man, but as he hanged on the cross, as he suffered and drew near to death, the darkness pointed toward the judgment for our sins which Jesus bore on the cross. His cry of desolation, “My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?” echoed the pain and agony of your sins, and my sins, and the sins of the world laid upon our Lord and Savior.

Jesus was forsaken, abandoned in some sense to take upon himself the sin of you and me so we would never be. Jesus has said that if we are to follow him, we too must take up our cross and die daily. We must deny ourselves and forsake our old self and the ways of the world in order to be made new.

Does everyone have to go through a painful place in the spiritual life? Dying to self is often painful. It is rarely easy. We cling to our old, comfortable ways. We don’t like surrendering our will to anyone else…even God! But if we are to be made into the image of Jesus; if we are to experience the resurrection life that is ours in Christ; we must die. We must join our hearts and lives with Jesus in his death…so we can be resurrected!

Reflect on the grace of our Lord Jesus in going to the cross to endure the penalty for your sin. Thank him. Think about what it is he has saved you from and give him praise for his love, mercy, and grace.

What needs to die in you in order that God’s will might come forth more in your life?

Is there something new that God is doing or wants to do in your life that requires more of the old things to pass away?

Where do you sense God wants to teach you obedience through the things you are suffering?

If you feel led, pray this prayer adapted from Henri Nouwen in Spirituality of Waiting:

Yes, Lord, I have to die – with you, through you, and in you –

There is so much in me that needs to die: false attachments, greed and anger, impatience and stinginess. O Lord, I am self-centered, concerned about myself, my career, my future, my name and fame. Often I even feel that I use you to my own advantage.

I see clearly how little I have died with you, really gone your way and been faithful to it. O Lord, let me find you again.

Amen.

Jesus endured the pain our sin. He died a death he did not deserve so that you and I might live. We must die in small ways day-by-day as we seek to love Him and learn obedience; as we surrender our lives and our will to the One who loves us with an undying love. May our old ways, our old self die away completely that we might grow to truly reflect the new creations we are in Christ!

Read: John 19:26-27

²³ When the soldiers had crucified Jesus, they took his garments and divided them into four parts, one part for each soldier; also his tunic. But the tunic was seamless, woven in one piece from top to bottom, ²⁴ so they said to one another, “Let us not tear it, but cast lots for it to see whose it shall be.” This was to fulfill the Scripture which says, “They divided my garments among them, and for my clothing they cast lots.”

So the soldiers did these things, ²⁵ but standing by the cross of Jesus were his mother and his mother’s sister, Mary the wife of Clopas, and Mary Magdalene.²⁶ When Jesus saw his mother and the disciple whom he loved standing nearby, he said to his mother, “Woman, behold, your son!” ²⁷ Then he said to the disciple, “Behold, your mother!” And from that hour the disciple took her to his own home.

Shelly Golay from Casper, Wyoming got a beautiful bouquet of flowers for Valentine’s Day from her husband, Jim. She was shocked to get them, as her husband had passed the previous July from an inoperable brain tumor. Jim had arranged to have flowers delivered to his wife every single Valentine’s Day for the rest of her life.

Often when a person knows they are going to die, they make arrangements for those who will live on. In most cases, people make sure there is life insurance or the house is paid off. Jesus had been trying to prepare his disciples for some time about his death, but in today’s text – the third word spoken by Jesus on the cross – he makes arrangements for his mother while in the pain of dying on the cross!

As Jesus is dying, his mother and three other women are standing nearby. “The disciple Jesus loved” (most people believe this is John himself) is also present. Looking at his mother and John there at the cross, Jesus tells Mary that John is now her son and tells John that Mary is now his mother. What did he mean? Why would Jesus say this, especially considering Mary had other children?

It is common to assume that Joseph, Mary’s husband and Jesus’ adoptive father, has died. Joseph is mentioned when Jesus was twelve years old (Luke 2:41-50) and then disappears. Now, as he hangs on the cross some twenty years later, it is most likely that Joseph has died and Jesus as his oldest son had been responsible for his mother. Now, knowing he is about to die, Jesus wants to honor his mother and make provision for her.

But why? Why not assign this responsibility to James or one of his other brothers (Mark 6:3)? But, we know from John 7:5 that his brothers did not believe in him. They did not accept that Jesus was who he claimed to be. They even seemed a bit antagonistic toward his claims trying to goad him into going up to Jerusalem to do his works (John 7:3). Later, after the resurrection, Jesus would appear to James (1 Corinthians 15:7) which may have been the catalyst to his faith. Eventually, James would write the book he is named for.

If his brothers did not believe in him at the time of his death, it makes sense that Jesus would entrust his mother’s care to one of his closest friends. It may be that a mother’s love and devotion to her oldest son created tension and jealousy that could hinder another brother’s care. It could be that Jesus wanted someone who believed and shared his mother’s faith caring for her. It may simply be that he knew the next few days would be extremely difficult and he wanted to know someone would care for and protect his mother in her moment of darkest pain.

It is tempting to see Jesus’ actions in some symbolic way. But, more profoundly, it seems that Jesus is illustrating for us the kind of love and concern each of us should have for our parents. Even in his darkest hour; even as he faces death and is in excruciating pain, he loves his mother so much, he cares for her.

How does seeing Jesus’ love for Mary from the cross influence how you understand Jesus’ love for you?

Are there relationships you’ve neglected or not shown the kind of love and concern you should because of pain in your own life? How can Jesus’ example encourage or enable you to choose love despite the pain?

Read: Luke 23:43

³² Two others, who were criminals, were led away to be put to death with him. ³³ And when they came to the place that is called The Skull, there they crucified him, and the criminals, one on his right and one on his left. 

³⁹ One of the criminals who were hanged railed at him, saying, “Are you not the Christ? Save yourself and us!” ⁴⁰ But the other rebuked him, saying, “Do you not fear God, since you are under the same sentence of condemnation? ⁴¹ And we indeed justly, for we are receiving the due reward of our deeds; but this man has done nothing wrong.” ⁴² And he said, “Jesus, remember me when you come into your kingdom.” ⁴³ And he said to him, “Truly, I say to you, today you will be with me in paradise.”

Mohammad took his first steps toward extremism as a teen. His cousin took him to hear many of the most radical of jihadist preachers. He joined their ranks and was ready to kill or do whatever it took to help advance his agenda.

But, after years of watching and aiding the violence; of harboring an anger so volatile it frightened his relatives, he realized it made no sense for Muslims to kill Muslims. He left the terrorist group he was involved with and fled with his new wife to Turkey.

Initially he was still zealous for Islam, but then his wife became ill. As her condition grew worse, Mohammad called the cousin who had initially introduced him to extreme Islam. Shockingly, his cousin was now living in Canada and had converted to Christianity! He asked Mohammad to put the phone close to his wife and the prayer group meeting at the cousin’s home in Canada began to sing and pray for her health.

Within a few days, his wife was feeling better! Her healing prompted Mohammad to a journey that ended in his faith in Christ. Now, Mohammad leads a group of former Muslims as they seek to know Jesus more deeply. God has transformed his anger and given him a humility and love for others.

Many don’t believe God could forgive a Muslim – especially one as extreme as Mohammad. Yet such persecution was exactly what Paul himself did to Christians in the book of Acts before he was miraculously met and converted on the road to Damascus.

In today’s text, Jesus is crucified between two criminals. As the mocking of the religious leaders dies away, one of the criminals mocks Jesus, saying, “Are you not the Christ? Save yourself and us!” If you are who you say you are, get us down from here! Prove your power!

Jesus is silent, but the second criminal speaks up. “Do you not fear God, since you are under the same sentence of condemnation? ⁴¹ And we indeed justly, for we are receiving the due reward of our deeds; but this man has done nothing wrong.” How can you say such things to Jesus? He’s done nothing wrong!

This criminal had a clearer understanding of who Jesus is than even some of his disciples at that point. He fears God and knows his judgment is deserved. But, watching Jesus and perhaps hearing him speak or the people talk about him, he sees something different. He believes. This really is the Son of God. He really has a kingdom. He says to Jesus, “Jesus, remember me when you come into your kingdom.” 

Even on the cross, as he struggles for breath and draws closer to his own death, Jesus is all about forgiveness. First, he asked the Father to forgive those who had mocked, beaten, and killed him. Now he tells this criminal who looks to him with faith and repentance and tells him, “Truly, I say to you, today you will be with me in paradise.” The forgiveness you seek; the life that you want…you have found it in me.

When we repent, when we turn to Jesus in faith, our forgiveness and eternal life and hope and transformation is instantaneous. There isn’t delay or probation. A man like Mohammad; a criminal like the thief on the cross; you and me…Jesus promises that when we turn to him, the moment our life on earth ends, we will be with him in Paradise.

What a glorious hope! What a beautiful promise! When we put our trust in Jesus, we are sealed with the promised Holy Spirit, who is the guarantee of our inheritance until we acquire possession of it, to the praise of his glory (Ephesians 1:13-14). Paul wrote in 1 Corinthians 15:

Behold! I tell you a mystery. We shall not all sleep, but we shall all be changed, ⁵² in a moment, in the twinkling of an eye, at the last trumpet. For the trumpet will sound, and the dead will be raised imperishable, and we shall be changed.

Death is swallowed up in victory. O death, where is your victory? O death, where is your sting?

Therefore, my beloved brothers, be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, knowing that in the Lord your labor is not in vain (1 Corinthians 15:51-52, 54, 55, 58).

What thoughts go through your mind when you read about someone like Mohammad or the thief on the cross? Why do you think that?

Do you find it difficult to believe God could forgive certain people? Do you find it difficult to believe God could forgive you?

How does the promise of going from this life directly to Jesus’ presence in paradise encourage you? How does Paul suggest we live in light of this truth?

Read: Luke 23:34

³³ When they came to the place called the Skull, they crucified him there, along with the criminals—one on his right, the other on his left. ³⁴ Jesus said, “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.” And they divided up his clothes by casting lots. ³⁵ The people stood watching, and the rulers even sneered at him. They said, “He saved others; let him save himself if he is God’s Messiah, the Chosen One.”

³⁶ The soldiers also came up and mocked him. They offered him wine vinegar ³⁷ and said, “If you are the king of the Jews, save yourself.”

³⁸ There was a written notice above him, which read: THIS IS THE KING OF THE JEWS.

Recently I’ve been reading the book, Just Mercy, by Bryan Stevenson. Stevenson is a lawyer who defended many death row inmates who had not received fair trials or treatment. At the center of the book is the story of Walter McMillan. As Stevenson becomes connected to McMillan, he uncovers layers of racial discrimination and political corruption that led to the conviction. In the end, the conviction is overturned, and Stevenson is able to prove McMillan had been falsely accused and convicted.

Have you ever been falsely accused? Our natural reaction is to defend ourselves and protest our innocence – and often that is appropriate! But sometimes people refuse to believe us or circumstantially, we can seem to be guilty. The more we protest, the worst it can become.

Rarely do we respond like Jesus. In the face of false accusation and complete misrepresentation, he kept silent. Here was a man who had lived a perfect life. He had done God’s will perfectly at every turn. He exposed the hypocrisy of religious leaders. He comforted and blessed the poor and the outcasts. He took time to eat with and preach good news to “sinners and tax collectors”. The more he did to honor and obey God, the more the religious establishment wanted to kill him. They accused him of using the power of Satan to cast out demons. They condemned him for healing on the Sabbath. They questioned and opposed him at every turn.

And then they had him arrested and brought to the High Priest. After a sham of a trial, he is sent to Pontius Pilate who recognizes his innocence and tries to free Jesus. But the people who had praised him with loud hosannas now shout that they do not want him released, they want him to die.  Finally, Jesus is condemned to death by Pilate, led away by soldiers to Golgotha, and crucified (Luke 23:23-33).

On the cross, as he endured the pain of the nails and as he struggled to keep his lungs open enough to take a breath, he does not curse. He does not protest his innocence. He does not demand justice. He does none of the things we might expect him to do. Instead, he asks his Heavenly Father to forgive them. Perhaps “them” was the soldiers or the Jewish leaders or the people who had demanded his crucifixion; perhaps it included you and me and all of humanity who sin and fall short of God’s glory. Forgive all of them. They do not know what they are doing.

Jesus, who had taught his followers to pray, “Forgive us our sins, for we also forgive everyone who sins against us” (Luke 11:4); who had told his followers to forgive their brothers seventy times seven times (Matthew 18:21-22); and forgave an adulteress caught in the act (John 8:1-11); now demonstrates his forgiving heart.

Jesus went to the cross to close the Old Covenant and initiate the New. Jesus told his disciples at the Last Supper, “This cup is the new covenant in my blood, which is poured out for you (Luke 22:20). Without the shedding of blood, there is no forgiveness (Hebrews 9:22). But Jesus in his words and in his actions makes possible forgiveness for all who will believe.

Take a moment to reflect on where your life is today. Is there any sin in your life that you have not confessed to Jesus and sought forgiveness? 1 John 1:9 reminds us, “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.”

The blood of Jesus has paid our debt, but we need to appropriate our forgiveness when we sin. Give thanks to God for his loving, gracious forgiveness and ask him to fill you afresh with his Spirit.

Now take a moment to reflect on your life from a different perspective. Is there anyone you need to forgive? Perhaps they don’t deserve it. They may not have not sought it. You might be afraid your forgiving them will somehow excuse what they’ve done.

Betty Russell writes:

• To forgive does NOT mean that you condone wrongdoing.
• Reaching a place of true forgiveness is NOT about you deciding that what someone did is okay if it was not.
• Forgiving does NOT mean you have to forget.
• Forgiveness is for our own growth and happiness. When we hold on to hurt, pain, resentment, and anger it harms us far more than it harms the offender.
• Forgiveness frees us to live in the present. Reliving the wrong that was done to us keeps us living in the past and missing today’s beauty.
• Forgiveness is a way we imitate our God who has forgiven us of far greater offenses than anyone has ever done to us!

Lastly, ask God if there is anyone you have wronged or offended. Resolve to ask forgiveness and seek to restore the relationship.